Payment etiquette


Rates

2 hrs     750

3 hrs    1000

+ 250/hr   untill 2000 for a night

12 hrs    2.500

24 hrs    3.500

weekend getaway: friday afternoon to sunday evening   5.000

Week getaway:   10.000

 In date(unplanned) extensions are 350 per hour, or 1.500 per day.

 

Travelcosts are 50euro within Amsterdam. + 3euro/ km outside of Amsterdam.

Couples may add 50% to the total bookingcost.

Please note that any booking 3 hrs and above require 25% of leisurely activity.

This may be anything from a museum to drinks to a concert or dinner.

deposit

Because there are people that enjoy the thrill of making an appointment with me without actually being there to greet me, i use the deposit to verify whether you are serious about your intentions of meeting me.

Depending on the location and duration of the date i do require a deposit between 20% and 35%.

Just like the etiquette around my rates i find it very easy to disengage when this topic causes a negotiation. 

I'm very openminded and welcoming to different cultures and perspectives. I'm very easily charmed by many different personality types.

Yet some things i find are just "not done" wherever you come from, and i don't enjoy it when it happens...

my time is very precious to me and i will not allow any one to waste it.

In the case this does cause negotiation, i will give you the benefit of the doubt and will respectfully bring it to your attention, but just once...

payment methods

Once we have made an appointment for the date i will send you the deposit details, depending on the location and duration of the date i will let you know what the amount of the deposit is.

  

In-meeting payment

Please keep the proper amount ready in an envelope yet concealed inside a giftbag, a book or anything that comes to mind.

 

valuable information

As i am a hosting business, i regularly get booked for business purposes.

Under the right circumstances you are able to bill my services for tax returns.

 

Etiquette

A great part of my everyday life serves as a base for the small window of time in which we will share together.

this not only refers to physical and aesthetic upkeep, but also to softer skills like table etiquette, musical history, male hobby's like golf and sailing and so forth...


While we might only meet for a few hours or a night, i think it is healthy for you to know that i have spent many already leading up to our meeting.

I truly give myself and i find pride in leaving you fully satisfied every time.

 

That is why i do not pay attention to men that try to negotiate with me.

Please do understand that i will only bring this to your attention once, if you choose to continue to try negotiating rates i find it very easy to break contact.

I believe you deserve to be treated like royalty, and i will treat you exactly so.

As you do, so do i deserve to be treated with the proper respect.

And please know that i will remember and appreciate it dearly if we never need to have this talk.

It does make a difference in all future interactions.

 Cancellation within the netherlands

 

 You will receive back everything except for transition fees(6%) under these circumstances:

you cancel up to 24 hours before we meet and:

the meeting has a maximum duration of 3 hours and is within Amsterdam.

 

You will only be charged Taxi fare and transition fees(6%) under these circumstances:

You cancel up to 24 hours before we meet and:

The meeting has a maximum duration of 3 hours.

 

You will lose the full deposit fee under these circumstances:

You cancel in less than 24 hours before we meet.

The meeting duration is 4 hours or longer.

 

50% of the full amount will be charged if:

 You cancel between 12 and 24 hours before we meet

 

 

The full amount of the date will be charged if:

I need to end our engagement during the meeting due to safety, health, unfair game reasons. This will be determined by my judgement and is always valid.

 

You cancel within 12 hours or less before we meet.

 

 

 

 

Cancellation worldwide, yet excluding the Netherlands:

You will only need to repay non refundable travelcosts and transactional fees(6%) under these circumstances:

 

If you cancel up to 30 days in advance, and the meeting has a maximum duration of 7 days

 

You will lose the full amount of your deposit under these circumstances:

 

If you cancel up to 15 days in advance.

If you cancel up to 30 days in advance, and the meeting has a duration of 7 to 15 days.

 

50% of the full amount of the meeting will be charged under these circumstances:

 

If you cancel between 8 and 15 days before we meet, and the meeting has a duration of maximum 7 days.

If you cancel up to 30 days in advance, and the meeting has a duration between 7 and 15 days.

 

100% of the full amount will be charged under these circumstances:

 

If you cancel within 7 days or less before we meet.

if you cancel 7 to 30 days  before we meet, and the meeting has a duration of longer than 7 days

 

If I have to end the engagement during our meeting due to safety, health, unfair gameplay reasons. This will be determined by my judgement, and is always valid.